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Wednesday, November 29, 2023

Ten years later… – Oh My Canine!

Three dogs are lined up on a sofa. From left to right: a brindle and white pit bull with a grey face, a yellow shepherd mix, and a small red pit bull with a worried expression on his face.

Ten years in the past this week, I caught my last chemo needle into my stomach, depressed the plunger, and burst into tears. I shoved the needle in my sharps field, and danced round Emmett, Lucas, and Cooper screaming, “I’m completed!” They thought I’d misplaced my thoughts… 

Eleven years in the past this week, a doc instructed me that there was a 65 % probability I wouldn’t make it right here, to this 10-year mark. It was statistically extra probably I’d both have a recurrence, or I’d die. That week eleven years in the past, I began the primary spherical of every day, two-hour-long infusions. Anxious, overwhelmed, and terrified, I settled into the chemo chair and tried to chill out because the nurse related the IV to my newly-installed port.

The identical morning, one other affected person began his first spherical of chemo. His nurse came to visit to my chair. “You two can be associates,” she stated, introducing us. “You’re the identical age, identical most cancers, identical remedy. You possibly can examine notes!” 

We didn’t turn out to be associates. We noticed one another for 2 hours each single day however by no means spoke, not likely. A shared prognosis isn’t actually a basis of friendship. 

That different man, he labored. As quickly as he related to his IV, he pulled out his laptop computer and typed. I learn, napped, watched TV, gossiped with my beloved chemo nurse. 

That different man, his spouse who was vastly pregnant, dropped him off every day after which left–I’m guessing being in a chemo suite isn’t nice for a fetus. 

He saved busy; I saved to myself.

We confirmed up every day and, over time, we appeared completely different. We misplaced weight and hair. As an alternative of him working or me studying, we each ended up simply type of sitting–it’s exhausting to really feel unhealthy on a regular basis–however we by no means actually talked.

Then, that different man stopped displaying up.

I requested one of many nurses if he was completed. No, she stated. They’re attempting a unique remedy.

I saved at it, ultimately graduating from the two-hour every day chemo drip to an at-home shot that I administered to myself.

I returned each week to select up extra needles and have my vitals checked.

After which at some point, I went into the oncology workplace for a vitals examine and prescription refill, and I discovered that different man, nicely, he died. 

This week, as I have a good time hitting 10 years cancer-free, I can’t assist however grieve for the little boy who will flip 10 this 12 months by no means having identified his father.

I grieve for my finest good friend who’s at the moment coping with a spate of her personal shitty cancer-related issues.

I grieve for the opposite 65 % of people that gained’t have the possibility to share their 10-year victory.

I grieve for the hundreds of thousands identified with most cancers every year.

And, yeah, I’m additionally celebrating as a result of fuck most cancers.

I bought to win this one, and it modified practically every little thing about my life and the best way I reside. Reality be instructed, I couldn’t have gotten right here with out the canines, too. It’s why I wrote the e-book I’m at the moment querying. It’s why I really feel strong that that is the trail my life is meant to be on.

I’m grateful for you. So a lot of you’ve been with me for this complete previous decade. We’ve created a neighborhood on this area round our shared love of canines, and I can’t wait to stroll this path with you for the following decade.

I’m grateful to reach at this level, this “cancer-free” level. The darkish specter that’s hovered behind my again for the final decade has receded a bit. The trail ahead is vivid and clear.

Now go give your canine a scritch for me!

Don’t be dismayed by the brokenness of the world. All issues break. And all issues could be mended. Not with time, as they are saying, however with intention. So go. Love deliberately, extravagantly, unconditionally. The damaged world waits in darkness for the sunshine that’s you. — L.R. Knost

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